My little exegesis on everything
Posted by Cathryn on November 09, 2005 at 21:04:17:

Well, Roger hasn't replied below, but I'll try to be brief.

A board is only as good as its members. I think even Canie would agree with me on that, and that in no way is meant to slight Canie's excellent handling of this board.

Problems arise for those of us on this board (and not on Syzygy) when acrimony on that board spills over here, and I don't mean just the very occasional grumbling we are all wont to partake in when feeling off, but words that are downright insulting.

Before Roger outright insulted Ara below, he and Michael took what I erroneously believed to be potshots at Ara, who, as everyone knows, was asked not to post here any more. I enjoyed Ara, but that is besides the point. Ironically, Ara and I initially got off on the wrong foot when he attacked something John V. had said (based on some thread on Syzygy), and I came to John's defense. We have since, however, become friends.

I have five kids. I have always tried to teach them that it's not the "whats" in life that matter as much as the "hows." The way you address someone is key, whether you agree with them or not. Yes, the "whats" matter, but if you don't pay attention to the "hows," how will you ever get your point across?

Your thoughts may be brilliant, but they will never be heard unless you present them politely. Your thoughts may be dear to your heart, whether scientific or general, but if you don't post them in an articulate and pleasant manner, they will fall on deaf ears and/or inflame others.

People who post things like, "You're a piece of s*** and your ideas are stupid," are essentially discrediting themselves, though they may not think that they are at the time. I, for one, will make a mental note that such and such a person may be an a**hole, when they may be the nicest person in the world removed from the earthquake prediction boards. Who knows?

I believe we should collectively try, as a board, to take the high road and refrain from insulting each other in any way on Earth Waves. I also would like to suggest that arguments started on Syzygy stay on Syzygy, so that people like me don't misinterpret a poster's intent, as I have done thrice, now. That would make Earth Waves a nice respite from some of the other prediction boards and that, in turn, would make Canie's job that much easier.

Cathryn


Follow Ups:
     ● Michael? - Michael Tolchard  22:31:41 - 11/9/2005  (30280)  (1)
        ● Re: Michael - Cathryn  22:36:02 - 11/9/2005  (30282)  (1)
           ● Re: Michael - Michael Tolchard  23:46:07 - 11/9/2005  (30291)  (1)
              ● Re: Michael - Cathryn  23:59:09 - 11/9/2005  (30297)  (1)
                 ● Re: Michael - Michael Tolchard  00:23:26 - 11/10/2005  (30302)  (2)
                    ● nicknames - canary  06:44:28 - 11/10/2005  (30311)  (0)
                    ● Re: Michael - Cathryn  00:44:20 - 11/10/2005  (30303)  (2)
                       ● Re: Michael - Michael Tolchard  10:48:32 - 11/10/2005  (30333)  (1)
                          ● Re: Michael - Cathryn  17:35:35 - 11/10/2005  (30354)  (0)
                       ● nicknames - chris in suburbia  06:47:09 - 11/10/2005  (30312)  (3)
                          ● Re: nicknames - Michael Tolchard  11:39:35 - 11/10/2005  (30336)  (1)
                             ● people propelling earthquakes - Cathryn  20:59:56 - 11/10/2005  (30365)  (1)
                                ● Re: people propelling earthquakes - Michael Tolchard  22:36:17 - 11/10/2005  (30372)  (0)
                          ● Re: nicknames - Canie  08:54:20 - 11/10/2005  (30327)  (0)
                          ● Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Ara  07:57:52 - 11/10/2005  (30322)  (1)
                             ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Cathryn  17:48:56 - 11/10/2005  (30355)  (2)
                                ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Ara  18:57:32 - 11/10/2005  (30359)  (1)
                                   ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Cathryn  21:02:50 - 11/10/2005  (30366)  (1)
                                      ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Roger Hunter  21:12:01 - 11/10/2005  (30367)  (1)
                                         ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Cathryn  21:17:06 - 11/10/2005  (30369)  (1)
                                            ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Roger Hunter  21:25:24 - 11/10/2005  (30370)  (1)
                                               ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Cathryn  23:46:27 - 11/10/2005  (30374)  (0)
                                ● Re: Sticks and Stones and Boomerangs - Don in Hollister  18:44:09 - 11/10/2005  (30357)  (0)
     ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Cathryn  21:36:31 - 11/9/2005  (30269)  (1)
        ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Canie  22:25:21 - 11/9/2005  (30276)  (2)
           ● Chile? - chris in suburbia  06:51:05 - 11/10/2005  (30314)  (1)
              ● Re: Chile? - Cathryn  07:02:12 - 11/10/2005  (30318)  (0)
           ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Cathryn  22:33:18 - 11/9/2005  (30281)  (4)
              ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Canie  08:44:25 - 11/10/2005  (30325)  (0)
              ● ahem.... - Roger Hunter  06:32:24 - 11/10/2005  (30308)  (1)
                 ● Re: ahem.... - Canie  08:49:16 - 11/10/2005  (30326)  (0)
              ● Judging Words, People & Predictions - Ara  04:42:52 - 11/10/2005  (30305)  (2)
                 ● FOR ARA - Todd  00:01:36 - 11/11/2005  (30378)  (1)
                    ● Re: FOR Todd - Ara  03:34:29 - 11/11/2005  (30383)  (0)
                 ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Roger Hunter  06:41:17 - 11/10/2005  (30309)  (1)
                    ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Ara  07:31:21 - 11/10/2005  (30321)  (1)
                       ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Roger Hunter  13:21:24 - 11/10/2005  (30342)  (2)
                          ● Re: Judging Predictions - Ara  18:49:03 - 11/10/2005  (30358)  (1)
                             ● Re: Judging Predictions - Roger Hunter  19:05:10 - 11/10/2005  (30360)  (1)
                                ● Re: Judging Predictions - Don in Hollister  19:43:53 - 11/10/2005  (30361)  (1)
                                   ● Re: Judging Predictions - Roger Hunter  20:39:30 - 11/10/2005  (30363)  (0)
                          ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Cathryn  17:51:57 - 11/10/2005  (30356)  (1)
                             ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Michael Tolchard  20:38:42 - 11/10/2005  (30362)  (1)
                                ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Roger Hunter  20:43:47 - 11/10/2005  (30364)  (1)
                                   ● Re: Judging Words, People & Predictions - Michael Tolchard  23:51:04 - 11/10/2005  (30375)  (0)
              ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Don in Hollister  23:38:44 - 11/9/2005  (30290)  (1)
                 ● Re: My little exegesis on everything - Cathryn  00:04:04 - 11/10/2005  (30300)  (0)