Hi Pat,
I too am so sorry to here what has been going on with you.
I have had to deal with the same issue myself.
It takes a very strong person to do what you are doing, It show your daughter that every day we have to make choices and on that day you made your choice for her and yourself!!
My Daughter and Myself lost her twin. It was a very trying and learning time for us.
Now my daughter is 19 yrs. A very storng, loving and giving person. She and I became more than Mother and Daughter with having to go though what we did. We are the best of friends and sometimes the worst of each other.
She just sent me a Thank You note, in it she thanks me for having the courage and courage to do what had to be done.
Little did she know that at the time I was a scared little girl inside.
She said that my love and hugs during the worst of it made a big differance.
So just hang in there and give lots of hugs to each other.
I'm sending Healing light your way, also lighting a candle if that is all right?
Gentle as you go,
Jeanine